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Dr. H. Boyd Israel
Georgia Victim

I do know what fairness and justice are and I firmly believe that I was not treated fairly or just by the system in Georgia, and my father’s rights and assets were not honored and protected. 


Father of Member Mark Israel

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS
FOR THE MIDDLE SECTION OF TENNESSEE
AT NASHVILLE 

MARK ISRAEL                                            )                                              

                                                                         )

Appellant,                                                        )

             )

vs.                                                                    )            Case No.:  M2011-00145-COA-R3-CV

                                                                         )

ROBERT R. SMITH, as Conservator         )            Trial Court No.: 2010-19

For the Estate of H. BOYD ISRAEL,          )

Ward,                                                              )

                                                                         )                                             

Appellee.                                                         )                     

AFFIDAVIT OF MARK ISRAEL 

Personally appeared before the undersigned officer, duly authorized to administer oaths, came Dawn Israel, who, upon being duly sworn, deposed and states as follows:

1.                  My name is Mark Israel; I am the Appellant in this case.  I am over 18 years of age and make this affidavit upon my personal knowledge.

2.                   My father, H. Boyd Israel, died on January 20, 2011.  His obituary is attached as Exhibit 1. 

3.                  Prior to his death, I did everything in my power to make sure that my Dad was taken care of properly and that his money was not spent unnecessarily.  I gave up my own rights to see my Dad hoping that he would continue to see my three kids, two of which he had gotten to know.  Sadly he never saw or spoke to my youngest.   

4.                  Unfortunately, in trying to take care of my Dad, I was involved in a horrible situation in the Lee County, Georgia, Probate Court.   To top off everything that happened over four years time, I hired a lawyer in June of 2009 who committed fraud on me and the courts of Tennessee, Georgia and Alabama.  Just two weeks ago I discovered information about Mr. Vogt’s current situation.  He has been disbarred and charged criminally.  Attached as Exhibit 2 is the information I found on the internet.  I also talked to Mr. Vogt’s lawyer and the prosecutor, who may press additional charges. 

5.                  Back in 2006, when I first started to try to help my Dad, I had to resort to legal proceedings and lawyers when there was no other way to make sure he was taken care of.  I know that with my Dad’s death, I can no longer help him.  I am not a lawyer and I may not understand all of the legal maneuvering that went on, but I do know right from wrong.  I do know what fairness and justice are and I firmly believe that I was not treated fairly or just by the system in Georgia, and my father’s rights and assets were not honored and protected.  I simply ask for this Court to look at all of what happened and tell me what is fair and just.

6.                   I have not pursued further appeal in the Georgia Court and/or brought this information to light in Tennessee for these reasons.  First, by the time I was aware of Vogt’s fraud upon the courts of TN, GA and me, the time had expired for me to have any course of action in either location. Second, I did nothing further in Georgia because I knew that I would not get a fair shake.  Lastly, after consulting with my Tennessee lawyer, I held out to the very end that my kids might get to see my Dad one last time before he died.  They did not.  I knew that once I revealed exactly what happened to me in the Lee County, Georgia, Probate Court, I would have no chance of ever making peace with the individuals involved.   

7.                  Now, with my Dad gone, I am willing to fight on for what is right and I can only hope that what happened to me will not happen to others in the future.  I respectfully ask this court to allow all of the following facts to be considered in determining whether or not I should pay these judgments.

8.                  In October 2006, I went to Georgia to bring my Dad home to Tennessee for a visit. I was shocked and disturbed by what I saw.  My parent’s home had a leak in the sewage system with raw sewage below the house.  My Dad was hardly able to stand up from his chair, had visible tremors and was “blanking” mentally. I immediately called a plumber and had the leak fixed.  I was so shaken by what I saw I called my wife back in Tennessee crying.

9.               Later that day, I brought my Dad back to our home in Franklin, Tennessee. We were able to quickly get him an appointment with a primary care doctor at Vanderbilt.  He was referred to neurological and urological specialists at Vanderbilt who determined the presence of Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s with dementia and significant prostate problems.  He began to receive medical treatment in the form of home health care, occupational and physical therapy and was prescribed medications to slow the progression of the diseases and help with the prostate problems.

10.              We also took Dad to a dentist for an emergency exam on October 23, 2006.  Several teeth had to be extracted.  The dentist wrote a letter stating that the damage was due to “long term neglect and lack of proper oral hygiene.”   When the local dentist had her assistant call my Dad’s Georgia dental provider to get records, she was told “Dr. Israel came to her office with several problems, and his wife said to wait until the problems get worse and then she will have the teeth extracted, because of their money situation.  However, this is not what Dr. Israel preferred at the time.”

11.              Sometime in November I asked Dad for someone he thought could help him and Mom back home.  He recommended attorney Bill Moorhead as a long time family friend.  I contacted Mr. Moorhead, sent medical records and a brief outline of what we were learning with regards to Dad’s condition and state of mind.  Eventually, Dad hired him to help.

12.              From the very beginning of this, I was just trying to assist my Mom and Dad and had no intention of being directly involved.    Mr. Moorhead was my primary contact.  On November 13, 2006 I emailed him: “As a family member I am convinced I am unable and should not be the one to try and get people and situations to change.  But I am also committed to helping my parents get through this difficult time and for the rest of the lives if need be.”   On November 15, 2006, Mr. Moorhead answered back that he agreed “that your father’s engagement of me now might prove helpful upon his return to Albany.”    On November 14, 2006, after I sent him information on Dad’s medical care, Mr. Moorhead emailed me that “[t]hanks for the fact sheet.  Your father will need some very carefully considered help.  I will do my best to see that he gets it.”  Attached as Exhibit 3 are the emails with Mr. Moorhead from this time period.

13.              Prior to Dad’s returning home, the assessments done here in Tennessee said that he would need a guardian and conservator and 24 hour supervision.  My Dad showed great improvement during the time he was in Tennessee with us.  For example, he stopped weeping, gained physical strength in his legs and began to walk unassisted.  He was able to mostly dress himself and was able to eat solid foods.  He gained weight, got new glasses and his fear receded.  He enjoyed reading, doing puzzles, baking cookies, going to church, going to the park with the kids, visits from some our friends.  He laughed, a lot.  He engaged in creative play with the kids and loved reading books to them.  His outward appearance improved dramatically. He commented that he had checked out and was glad to be "checked back in" as he called it.  He was enjoying participating in everyday activities.  He was always happy to see the home health care because they were here to see him.  He went from not being able to stand unassisted (we started him in a wheelchair when he got here) to being able to complete 20 full squats with his back against a wall.

14.              I took Dad back to his home in Georgia sometime in the third week of January, 2007.  Prior to that I had been communicating regularly with Mr. Moorhead, by phone and email. Emails attached as Exhibit 4.   

15.              I took Dad home believing Mom was going to be his guardian and that Mr. Moorhead would assist in doing the paperwork necessary to make that happen.  Mom would be provided whatever help she needed.  When I brought Dad home, I met with his doctors, dentist, pastor and Mr. Moorhead. His doctor ordered a home health assessment.  This upset my Mom and I returned to Nashville two days later in January 2007.

16.              In early March, 2007, there was still no guardianship and my Dad was regressing rapidly.  I continued to be in touch with Mr. Moorhead about it and on March 15, 2007, he emails me: “My assistant Angela Gattie is pouring over the documents turned over by your mother to prepare the petition for conservatorship/guardianship.  She has been working on it for the last 2 days with some understandable interruptions.  She should have a draft for my review in the next day or two.”  Email attached as Exhibit 5.

17.              I was also concerned about my Dad’s financial affairs and passed along my concerns to Mr. Moorhead.  In April, 2007, Dad left the house by himself, fell and broke his nose and suffered face lacerations.  I was told 48 hours after he was hospitalized about his accident and I contacted the hospital social worker.  I told her I believed it was not safe for my dad to return home without help and oversight for my mom. She said she must contact Georgia Adult Protective Services based on that information.  I continued to email Mr. Moorhead who told me on April 17, 2007, that: “I am meeting with your father, mother and Kim tomorrow at 10:00 a.m. we are going to address all of the important issues concerning your father’s situation.  This will include safety concerns, financial issues and the terms of the conservatorship.  We will attempt to work out something that is in the best interest of your father on all of these issues.”  I heard nothing and continued to email Mr. Moorhead, asking for some form of communication concerning my Dad’s care so I could know that his needs were being met.  Mr. Moorhead promised to discuss my request with my parents.  Emails attached as Exhibit 6. 

18.              Rather than a guardianship/conservatorship, I later learned that Mr. Moorhead had prepared general and healthcare powers of attorney appointing Mom as Dad’s agent to handle all of my Dad’s financial and medical affairs.  Considering all that Mr. Moorhead knew about my Dad’s mental and physical condition, the issues regarding finances and the problems that previously existed, I did not understand why this happened.  I contacted a local attorney in Georgia, Michael Hall, and through him filed for guardianship/conservatorship for my Dad on June 22, 2007.  Mr. Hall agreed to become conservator to provide professional, non-family member oversight and accountability in Dad’s finances. This would allow me to focus solely on Dad's personal care and quality of life issues, and would dismiss any accusation that I might be doing this for personal gain.

19.              The Probate Court Judge ordered a neuropsychological evaluation, but at Mr. Moorhead’s request, did not allow the evaluator access to Dad’s medical records. 

20.              On July 12, 2007, my Dad, represented by Mr. Moorhead, filed his Answer and Defenses objecting to the assertion that he was incapacitated.  His alternative position was that my Mom should be named the guardian and conservator, that I was unsuitable to be guardian and that Michael Hall was unsuitable to be conservator. My mother and siblings all filed affidavits stating my father did not need a guardian and conservator  and was capable of taking care of himself and managing his affairs.

21.              On July 30, 2007, the evaluator appointed by the Probate Court issued his report and said that Dad needed both a guardian and conservator.   Shortly after that, for some reason, my attorney, Mr. Hall then told me he could not serve as conservator.  Just last week, the mediator, Ms. Drake, told me that Mr. Hall and Mr. Moorhead used to be partners.  This was never disclosed to me by either of them.

22.              The Probate Court Judge ordered mediation to be held on September 7, 2007.  My wife Dawn and I attended with one of our kids.  Gayle Drake was the mediator.  At the mediation a settlement was reached with my Mom, my brother Dennis Israel and an independent third party being named guardians.  A local accountant was eventually named conservator, Mr.  Robert Smith.  The guardians were to report quarterly and the conservator annually.  I could ask questions to the guardians about Dad’s care one time per report.  Mr. Hall told me that the hearing to enter the Final Order would be the next week.  There was never a hearing on the Final Order; it was signed by the Probate Court Judge on November 5, 2007.  The Settlement Agreement was made a part of the Final Order and was the source of the litigation that has ended up in this Court.  During this time, Mr. Hall did send a letter to Mr. Moorhead outlining his concerns with one of my siblings.  The letter and Settlement Agreement are Exhibit 7

23.              The Settlement Agreement contained nothing limiting calls to my Dad.  The next day, when my daughter called to talk to Dad, he told my wife that he cannot talk to the kids because those are the “rules.”  Up until this time my daughter and Dad spoke every Saturday by phone.  With one exception, I was not allowed to speak to my father after the day of the mediation.  The one exception was Thanksgiving, 2007.  I called my parents’ house and they had installed an answering machine.  I left a message telling them where we were and that we wanted to come over and see them (it’s less than 2 hours away).  Mom called me back and said I could not come and I was not welcome.  Dad picked up an extension and asked me to please not come. He was scared to death.

24.              Our attempts to call Dad from then on were met with hang-ups and busy signals.   

25.              At the end of December, 2007, the first guardian report was filed.  In early January, 2008, I attempted to call Mom to ask questions about the report.  She told me that she would have to talk to Mr. Moorhead and get back to me.  I called my brother Dennis on his cell phone and he also said he would have to call Mr. Moorhead and call me back.  Dennis did call me back and said that all the guardians had to be together at the same time to discuss the report, that I could not talk to them separately.  I disagreed and told him so, Dennis said he would talk to everyone and get back to me.

26.              Dennis did call me back and told me a time that I could call to talk to everyone and we could talk about the guardian report at that time.  I called back when I was supposed to and it did not work out because of a problem they were having with Mom and Dad’s phone.  They did not want to have the call on Dennis’ cell phone and gave me another time to call.

27.              I called back at the time I was told to.  Dennis was not there and Nancy Goode answered.  Nancy told me that she could not speak to me privately and that I was violating the Settlement Agreement by calling more than once.  We ended that attempt to discuss the first guardian report.

28.              On January 17, 2008, my attorney, Michael Hall sent a letter to the Probate Court Judge and Mr. Moorhead.  Mr. Hall, without me knowing and without my permission, attached an email that I sent to him.  This is the letter that is the basis for the first “violation” of the settlement agreement according to the papers filed with this Court.  Mr. Moorhead promptly wrote a letter accusing me of a violation.  I was very upset and told Mr. Hall.  He subsequently quit representing me and told me by letter with my file to “feel free to file a complaint concerning me to anyone that you feel will listen.”  Exhibit 8 is Mr. Hall’s January 17, 2008, letter with my email, Mr. Moorhead’s January 18, 2008, letter, Mr. Hall’s letter quitting and his letter that came with my file.

29.               On January 28, 2008, I wrote a letter to the Probate Court Judge asking for guidance.   In September, 2009, this letter was used to find me in contempt of court.  Mr., Moorhead wrote a letter to the Probate Court Judge on February 13, 2008 and the Judge then wrote me on February 15, 2008 and told me that I could not call my parents’ house until my Dad consented.  I didn’t understand why my request for guidance from the Probate Court ended up being the cause of me being found in contempt of court.  I wrote to the Probate Court Judge on February 19, 2008, in response and told him that I would abide by his directive, which I did.  The letters are Exhibit 9.

30.               In March, 2008, I received the guardians’ second quarterly report.  I called Nancy Goode to set up a time to talk.  She told me she would check with the other Guardians and get back to me.  I asked her to return call me so I was not violating anything. I waited three weeks, heard nothing and then called her back.  She told me the first available time for her was in late May.  I told her that was not acceptable and I would ask the Probate Court Judge to address it.  To the best of my knowledge, I called Ms. Goode no more than five times and perhaps less.

31.              That was the last time I spoke to any of the Guardians until my Tennessee lawyer arranged a call through Mr. Moorhead in September, 2010, to discuss my Dad’s condition after he suffered a stroke.    

32.              In late April, 2008, I wrote a letter to the Probate Court Judge informing him that I had not received my one call regarding the guardian report.  That letter is Exhibit 10 (it is wrongly dated January 23, 2008).

33.               On May 9, 2008, Mr. Moorhead, as the guardians’ lawyer filed a “Petition to Modify Guardianship and Conservatorship.”   The Probate Court Judge signed the proposed Order and filed it the same day.  The Petition and Order is Exhibit 11.

34.              In July, 2008, I hired two lawyers from Atlanta, Georgia, David Pollan and Kevin O’Sullivan.  On July 14, 2008, they filed two motions on my behalf.  The first was a Petition for Removal of Conservator and Guardian or in the Alternative, Modification of the Conservator and Guardianship Estates.   The second was a Motion to Set Aside Judgment, the May 9, 2008 Order.  These motions are Exhibit 12.

35.              The parties then attempted to settle by negotiating.  Exhibit 13.

36.              On July 24, 2008 and August 5, 2008, the Probate Court Judge filed two letters about the conservator.  The first said that “all necessary reports have been filed.”  At the time, no reports had been filed by the conservator.  The second letter stated that the conservator had been excused from filing the ninety-day report because “financial information in initial petition was very detailed.”   Actually, we had left blanks in the initial petition and had underestimated Dad’s income as approximately $3,800 when it was actually about $80,000.  These two Probate Court letters are Exhibit 14.

37.              My lawyers then filed an Amended Petition for Removal of Conservator based upon the Probate Court’s letter.  Exhibit 15 to my affidavit (without exhibits).

38.              On October 22, 2008, the conservator filed an Inventory and Asset Management Plan.  Mr. Moorhead’s letter to the Probate Court Judge said it was filed rather than “debate the effectiveness of your waiver.” His letter is Exhibit 16.

39.              On November 10, 2008, Mr. Moorhead filed, on behalf of the guardians a Motion for Contempt.  It was based upon the Michael Hall letter sent January 17, 2008, without my permission, my request for guidance, my April letter telling the Probate Court Judge that I had not received my call, the motions filed by my attorneys in July, 2008, extra calls to Nancy Goode, and a communication I had with a person at the American Alzheimer’s Association (ALZ).  I was accused of filing a complaint against Nancy Goode as guardian by the guardian, when what actually happened is that it is against that organization’s policy to have one of their employees act as a guardian and they had no knowledge Nancy Goode was acting as a guardian for my dad.  No complaint was ever made to or filed with the ALZ.    The motion is Exhibit 17.

40.              On October 20, 2008, the Guardians agreed to set aside the May 9, 2008, Order “to correct any potential procedural errors that exist…”  Mr. Moorhead letter and other filings on this issue are Exhibit 18.

41.              Also in October, 2008 my attorneys inquired and filed papers regarding the shortcomings of the conservator’s report that is missing many items.  We ask for records to support the conservator’s report and for the conservator to post the required bond, which he eventually does.   On the first of December my attorneys withdraw the Amended Petition for Removal of Conservator without prejudice. 

42.              On January 14, 2009, Mr. Moorhead wrote the Court asking the Probate Court Judge to remove the pending Motion for Contempt from the docket.

43.              In late February, 2009, my attorneys notified me that they were withdrawing.  I was extremely upset and sent a letter to them and copied the Probate Court.  In hindsight I wish I had not sent the letter and not quoted the things my attorneys said.  While truthful, the letter is insulting and I apologize to all concerned.  I wish to be totally upfront with this Court and attach the letter as Exhibit 19.  

44.              I also filed an Objection to the Conservator’s Annual Return that was filed on March 5, 2009.  It is Exhibit 20.

45.              On April 1, 2009, the conservator filed an amended return, his Answer to my objection and a Motion for Protective Order.  The Probate Court signed and entered the proposed Orders the same day.  The Answer, Motion and Orders are Exhibit 21.

46.              On April 14, 2009, the conservator filed a Motion for Attorneys Fees.  Within the motion is an allegation that my behavior was abusive.  I filed a response on May 6, 2009, with an affidavit by my former attorney, Mr. O’Sullivan, that disputed that allegation.  The motion and my response is Exhibit 22.

47.                On April 20, 2009, I filed a Motion to Disqualify the Probate Court Judge.  Mr. Moorhead filed a letter in response the same day and the Probate Court Judge denied my motion by way of letter dated April 30, 2009.  I responded and filed a second Motion to Disqualify on May 20, 2009.  The documents are Exhibit 23.

48.                On April 29, 2009, I filed two motions to set aside the judgments that had been entered on April 1, 2009.  The conservator, through Mr. Moorhead, filed a response and an additional Motion for Attorney’s Fees.  I filed a response to that motion on May 20, 2009.  The documents are Exhibit 24.

49.              May 4th, 2009, I wrote Kathy Cash, the Lee County probate court clerk a letter requesting that I be sent stamped copies of all future filings.  My letter is Exhibit 25.  In court records furnished to my Tennessee attorney by the Lee County Probate court my letter requesting stamped copies of filings is not present.  I received no copies of any Lee County probate court documents directly from the court after receiving the June 9th, 2009 hearing notice.

50.              The pending motions were set for hearing on June 9, 2009.  After a failed attempt to hire a different attorney 2 days before the hearing, the declining attorney recommended me to contacted Elliot Vogt.  I retained Mr. Vogt on June 5, 2009, and he filed a Motion to Continue on June 8, 2009.  His letter and Motion to Continue is Exhibit 26.  Mr. Vogt told me that his request for continuance was denied, that he attended the hearing and I lost all the motions.  The June 15, 2009 Orders that are part of this case came out of this hearing.

51.              Later, Mr. Vogt told me that he had timely and properly filed an appeal.  He did not.  Mr. Vogt also did not file an appellate bond with 2500.00 I paid him to file said bond.

52.              Mr. Vogt also failed to tell me and send me copies of the other pleadings that were filed, including a Motion for Contempt.

53.              Mr. Vogt did not tell me that there was a hearing that I needed to attend on August 25, 2009 or that he did not attend on my behalf.

54.              Mr. Vogt did not notify me of and failed to represent me in hearings held in the Lee County Probate Court from June 10th 2009 through January 2010, when I discovered he had been suspended and promptly terminated his representation of me by letter to the Lee County Probate court and to Mr. Vogt.

55.              On August 26, 2009, Mr. Moorhead submitted documents related to my sister Kim being appointed guardian ad litem in order to approve extra payment to the conservator.  Contained in Mr. Moorhead’s instructions is the specific notation that I did not need to be notified.  The documents were entered and I was not notified.  They are Exhibit 27. 

56.              Mr. Vogt did not tell me or send me copies of the September 16, 2009, Orders that resulted from that hearing.  He also did not tell me that there was an arrest warrant out for me.

57.              October 14, 2009, I was arrested and thrown in jail.  Through the investigation of my Tennessee lawyer, I learned of the contempt hearings for the first time.

58.               In October, 2010, I received an Order with no file stamp.  The Order relieved my father’s guardians from making quarterly reports and stated it was effective September 28, 2010.  It also relieved the guardians from ever having to talk to me about my Dad’s health.  My Tennessee lawyer asked for a copy of the file stamped copy and any motions and correspondence that preceded the Order.  All we received was a file stamped copy dated October 29.  These documents are Exhibit 28.

59.              The Georgia Uniform Rules for the Probate Court is Exhibit 29.

60.              The Georgia Code of Judicial conduct is Exhibit 30. 

 

 

August, 2011:

On August 24th, I will appear in the appeals court here in Nahville, TN to defend against a charge placed on me by a court in GA. The charge says I harassed my dad's estate before he died earlier this year, and seeks about 30K from me in fees charged to my dad by a father, son and daughter law firm. The story is one that I will spare you but has forever impacted my life and the lives of my wife and kids.

In 2006 I got chose to get directly involved in my dad's care. He was being neglected, financially exploited by a sibling, and physically abused by one he loved. My children, and some awesome care during the 3 months he stayed here with us brought his spirit back from a very sad place. During the time he was with us, he was loved every minute of every day, without exception. It was a blessed time, even though we realized the ALZ and Parkinson's already had a firm grip on his mind and body. The time dad spent with us was priceless, and one little girl in particular got under his skin in a big. awesome way!

In 2007 after I took him back home and he had a terrible accident because his needs were being ignored. As a result, I chose to go to GA and filed in the GA court to take legal responsibility for my dad's care, not his money, just the care of his person. As a result of that action, I was demonized, placed in jail, sued, lied about ,lied to, stolen from, but worst of all, my children never saw my dad again, and he never met my now 2 year old son. By legal definition that is elder abuse, but no one or agency in that small community in south GA would lift a finger to intervene. No pastor, family friend, or social agency. My dad was told that something bad would happened to him if he spoke to any of us and that he had to follow the rules or he would be taken away from my mom. The Adult services agency said that my dad did want to see my children, but they were not going to do anything about it. I had things happen to me in that probate court that were beyond believable. A lawyer claiming to be my dad's friend submitted motions and received judgments for his motions on the same day he submitted them, calling me an abuser, asking the court to put me in jail, saying dad was not sick and did not need someone to care for him, etc. He helped himself and his two children attorneys to at least 85K of my dad's retirement with all his filings "defending" my dad's "estate" against me. I wanted not a penny of his money, just proof of excellent care and visits with my kids.

None of us ever saw my dad again, he died in January, placed in a facility we were not allowed to visit with a central feeding line inserted he did not want and his suffering was prolonged when there was no chance of recovery from a stroke leaving him unable to swallow. I offered the entire dollar amount of this judgment and to go to jail for 6 months if they would let us take care of him on our dime or use the money and let him die at home. It was rejected, as was our request to attend the funeral. It is my understanding he was taken from south Georgia to his final resting place in South Carolina in the back of a pickup truck to "save money." My dad was a veteran.....he deserved better (even if he was not a veteran he deserved better).

I spent 2 nights in jail here in Williamson County, TN on a "fugitive from justice warrant issued by the court in GA for failing to attend a hearing in GA I knew nothing about. That was thrown out and expunged, and then this lawsuit for money was sent up here, no coincidence by the father and son attorney team that did everything in their power to make sure a father, son and grandchildren never had a relationship in this lifetime.

I will probably lose this lawsuit not because it is fair or right or just, but because of how the law reads and how lawyers can manipulate the rules at times and ignore or not even follow them at others.

My dad is free now. He cannot be hurt anymore, and this stuff is not about his care or honoring his memory.

I struggle with this knowledge: People that have behaved badly in this maybe even evil) profess to know and serve the same God I say I belong to. I cannot reconcile that at this time, and I am sorry that my struggle with that causes my family and my friends a great deal of pain, especially my spousal unit. I have a lost a few friends over this, wanting me to get over it and get on with it. If my dad was able to take care of himself, I never would have stepped into this madness.

I struggle with the knowledge that I have witnessed such disregard for my dad's rights and my own, and that the abuse and exploitation of our older loved ones is more commonplace than I ever imagined it to be. I wanted to believe that if someone or some regulatory body higher up the food chain reviewed what was happening they would take necessary action. I was wrong.

A direct vertical experience with any of the 3 persons who gave us life would be an awesome, but even with that I would be cautious, because the people who were neglecting, abusing and exploiting my dad continued to do so through the last 3 years of his life and then some, and they profess an intimacy with God I cannot compete with.

If I had words of wisdom I would insert them here, but I am at a loss. I am broken over it, and I hope God redeems me. In one moment I wish he would crush my enemy, and the other feel guilty for feeling that way. No amount of repentance will bring dad back, or undo the knowledge that my children will learn later in life that my mother and brothers and sister hated me so much that they kept them from their grandfather.

Anyway, I am not looking for sympathy in writing this. I write it so I do not have to keep explaining why I am as broken as I am. I feel kinda like I think DeNiro did in "Awakenings," when the drugs were not working and he made the doc film him. He kept saying, "Learn, Learn," as his body convulsed and twitched as his mind and body gave in to the disease.

I know I am a strange bird in some ways. I know I struggle to believe God wants to be in my heart, and that He has a purpose for me. When I was told I had stage 4 cancer (I did not)and my firstborn Eleanor was 5 days old it affects you. Having a heart attack at 41 and having the cure be worse than the attack (and finding out my heart grew its own bypass) affects you. And this ugliness with my family and the brokenness and manipulation of the probate court system and lawyers has affected me in a way that is not good.

I say the following not to take credit.....I made a few good choices in my life. I choose to believe those choices were God inspired. Marrying my wife, in spite of my lustful heart, taking care of Mamaw (Dawn's grandmother) and taking care of my dad a when he could not.

I know that the time my family and I spent with my dad in 2006 was healing, difficult, loving, and priceless. We are so blessed to have had that time with him, and it pains my soul to know that people who say they love him went to extraordinary lengths to purposefully deny him the love and affection of my family.

It shames me to think that my original family and a lawyer who called himself my dad's friend, when confronted with the neglect and exploitation of my dad, instead of doing everything in their power to stop and just care for and protect him in his vulnerability, instead chose to demonize me and make sure that he had fear in his life until his last breath, while helping themselves to his income in the name of "defending" my dad against me.

If there was a way for me to stand in Georgia and face my accusers I would, even if I lost. My previous attorney in Georgia, through his fraud and eventual disbarment, took away my legal right to appeal the judgment against me in Georgia. An appeal in Georgia would require the appeal tribunal to review the entire case " as new." Not the case on a judgment sent from one state to the other.

In Tennessee, the enforcement of the Georgia judgment is treated as a Tennessee judgment with one huge difference: it does not allow you to present facts about the case. They will not consider in Tennessee that there was never a hearing for my dad's guardianship, or that the court did not appoint a guardian ad litem for my dad to help my dad express his desires. They cannot use the knowledge that the conservator for my dad's estate never filed a report or posted bond until forced to do by motion to have him removed, or that the judge excused him 9 months after he failed to visit my dad or have any direct involvement in my dad's finances. They cannot consider that on at least 3 occasions motions were submitted to the judge and orders were signed the same day they were submitted. But most of all, they cannot consider that my dad expressed on more than occasion the desire to see my children, his grandchildren, and he was legally emotionally abused when he was denied the right to visit with them by use of fear and retaliatory consequences.

Regards,

Izzy


Guardianship abuse and conservatorship abuse IS elder abuse!

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