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Mother of Member Linda Kincaid
Summary: My mother, Carol Hahn, has
dementia. In January 2010, Mom did not know her address or phone
number. She worried that she did not have any money, although she had
over $1M in accounts. She forgot conversations within hours. Mom was
fortunate to have MG, her “dearest friend in the world”, to care for
her. They lived together since 2007. Mom often said, “He is a jewel.”
In February 2010, I called Mom’s step-granddaughter
to help. Mindy Martin is unemployed, and Mom was fond of her. I asked
Mindy Martin to visit Mom and bring her new clothes. Mindy Martin said
she loved her “Grandma”, would do anything for her “Grandma”, and didn’t
want a penny for helping her “Grandma”.
Mindy Martin never visited Mom at her home. Mindy
Martin did not bring Mom new clothes. However, Mindy Martin exercised
undue influence to take control of Mom and her entire estate. Until
June 2010, I was Mom’s sole heir (only child), and I was beneficiary or
co-owner on her bank accounts.
Chronology: On June 5, 2010, Mom was taken
from her home by her accountants, Audrey Nesvold and Susan Balkom.
Mom’s front door was broken inward. The deadbolt splintered the wood of
the door jamb. However, San Bernardino Co. Sheriff’s Department
determined that no crime was committed. Audrey Nesvold and Susan Balkom
placed Mom at Mission Commons in San Bernardino, telling staff that Mom
had no family and was abused by MG. Mindy Martin told Mission Commons
that Mom had no money to pay her rent.
On June 10, five days after being taken from her
home, Mom signed a Power of Attorney (prepared and notarized by
Riverside attorney Jaxon Miller) giving authority to Mindy Martin. Mom
signed a Trust making Mindy Martin successor trustee. I challenged
Mindy Martin on the validity of those documents, given Mom’s advanced
dementia. Mindy Martin quipped, “I asked the attorney about that, and
he said it would be OK.”
On June 19, Mindy Martin moved Mom to Wildwood Canyon
Villa in Yucaipa. Mindy Martin instructed Wildwood to isolate Mom from
family. Wildwood confiscated Mom’s cell phone. Wildwood restricted all
phone calls and visits, unless approved by Mindy Martin. San Bernardino
Co. Sheriff’s Department and DA both stated, “There is nothing out of
the ordinary.”
Mindy Martin made many false statements in her court
documents. Based those false statements, Mindy Martin was appointed
Temporary Conservator in August 2010. In December, the court finally
ordered that MG and I are allowed “supervised visitation”. Cost for
visitation is nearly $200/hour. The designated company refuses to
schedule visits.
In September, Mom slept on a mattress on the floor.
Mom slept in street clothes, as she had no pajamas. The few times
family was allowed to visit, Mom was very hungry. Mom now weighs about
90 pounds. Mindy Martin cancelled a neurologic exam that I requested.
The DA still says, “There is nothing out of the ordinary.” In San
Bernardino Co., perhaps this situation is indeed “nothing out of the
ordinary.”
In October, Mom was placed in hospice care under Dr.
Victoria Rains. Dr. Rains refuses to talk to family and refuses to
include family in “hospice family team meetings.” Dr. Rains and Mindy
Martin continue to isolate Mom, hastening her death. Mindy Martin is
likely already shopping for the new house that she asked Mom to buy for
her.

Guardianship abuse and conservatorship
abuse IS elder abuse!
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