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Mother of Member Connie Krivich
On August 4, 2009, my 76 year old mother, who has Alzheimers, was
removed from her home under the direction of a county attorney. My
brother was told by a county social worker that they were placing my
mother on a 72 hour hold. August 4th was a Tuesday the 72
hour hold would have expired on Friday. The county had all day
Wednesday, all day Thursday and almost all day Friday to make contact
with the family, but they did not even attempt to contact family. The
very next morning, less than 24 hours later a county social worker,
along with the county attorney, filed a Petition for Emergency
Guardianship appointing the county social worker as guardian.
They chose to not contact any family members, even
though they had 72 hours in which to make contact. My sister is a RN
and she had Power of Attorney, but that did not matter. My mother has 6
children none of whom were contacted regarding the Emergency Guardian
Petition. How is it possible that a county social worker and a county
attorney could believe that this was proper behavior?
They threw my mother in a nursing home, even though
it is a documented fact that people with dementia should not be removed
from their surroundings. They never once contacted family to ask what
would be in my mothers best interest. My mother suffered horribly at
the nursing home the county chose. After only 3 weeks, my mother was
hospitalized for an infection, she had a fractured wrist and she had
bruising to all sides of her body, including a baseball sized bruise to
her left breast.
A hearing on the appropriateness of the Emergency
Guardian must be held within 5 days. The family never received notice
of this hearing. It was by pure luck that my sister and I found out
about the hearing and attended at the last minute. Once there, we
BEGGED to be allowed co-guardians of our mother with the county social
worker. Had we arrived a few minutes later, the hearing would have been
over and we would have lost our mother to a county social worker.
On October 8, 2009 my sister and I obtained Permanent
Guardianship over our mother and the county social workers guardianship
was terminated. During the three-month Emergency Guardianship that the
county forced upon my mother, she lost approx. $25,000. She also
suffered a severe emotional/mental decline, from which she has never
recovered. Even after all of this, we consider ourselves lucky, because
our nightmare is over. There are others out there who have been
battling abusive guardianships for years.

Guardianship abuse and conservatorship
abuse IS elder abuse!
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