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The guardian and/or conservator treats you as an outsider
instead of a relative, friend, or loved one. |
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Your loved one doesn't get his/her mail. |
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The guardian/conservator sees to it that your loved one
doesn't have a phone. |
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When you visit, the guardian "hovers" or even employs
someone to hover so you're not alone with your loved one. |
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If your loved one is in a nursing home, you're only
allowed to visit in the dining room or recreation room. |
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Your loved one appears to be more sluggish, perhaps even
dazed. |
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You start seeing questionable documents and realize
financial accounts are closed or changed and the statements
have been diverted to the guardian/conservator. |
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You discover the taxes haven't been paid -- or even
filed. |
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The nursing facility tells you when you visit, you
"upset" your family member or upset the staff. |
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You are denied input about your loved one's care - the
doctor won't talk to you - you are shut out. |
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Items are missing items from your loved one's home. |
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The guardian/conservator refuses to take your call or
answer your questions. |